Here’s to All of the Girl Dads Among Us

It took the tragedy of Kobe Bryant’s death for the world to start celebrating how it feels to be the father of daughters.

And so, here we are welcoming the #GirlDad movement with open arms.

Dierks Bentley and Justin Moore have been the first couple of country stars out there to share how much they love their roles as the fathers of daughters. And hopefully soon, stars like Tim McGraw, Jake Owen, Keith Urban, Kane Brown, Tyler Hubbard, Garth Brooks, Alan Jackson, Jordan Davis, Thomas Rhett, Granger Smith, Jason Aldean and more will follow their lead.

This all started when ESPN’s Elle Duncan shared her story of the time she asked Bryant for advice on raising girls during one of her interviews with the basketball legend.

“Without hesitation, he said, ’I would have five more girls if I could. I’m a girl dad,’” Duncan recalled Bryant saying.

Bryant, 41, and his daughter Gianna Bryant, 13, were in his private helicopter when it crashed in the Los Angeles County suburb of Calabasas on Jan. 26. All nine people aboard the helicopter died.
The Bryants were on their way to a basketball game at the Mamba Sports Academy in Thousand Oaks. Bryant was expected to coach his daughter’s team at the game.

While the news of the two deaths in the Bryant family shook the world, no one’s heart as is heavy as Bryant’s wife Vanessa and their three surviving daughters Natalia, Bianka, and Capri.

“We are completely devastated by the sudden loss of my adoring husband, Kobe — the amazing father of our children; and my beautiful, sweet Gianna,” she shared on Instargram. “I’m not sure what our lives hold beyond today, and it’s impossible to imagine life without them. But we wake up each day, trying to keep pushing because Kobe, and our baby girl, Gigi, are shining on us to light the way. Our love for them is endless — and that’s to say, immeasurable. I just wish I could hug them, kiss them and bless them. Have them here with us, forever. Thank you so much for lifting us up in your prayers, and for loving Kobe, Gigi, Natalia, Bianka, Capri and me. #Mamba #Mambacita #GirlsDad #DaddysGirls #Family ❤️

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My girls and I want to thank the millions of people who’ve shown support and love during this horrific time. Thank you for all the prayers. We definitely need them. We are completely devastated by the sudden loss of my adoring husband, Kobe — the amazing father of our children; and my beautiful, sweet Gianna — a loving, thoughtful, and wonderful daughter, and amazing sister to Natalia, Bianka, and Capri. We are also devastated for the families who lost their loved ones on Sunday, and we share in their grief intimately. There aren’t enough words to describe our pain right now. I take comfort in knowing that Kobe and Gigi both knew that they were so deeply loved. We were so incredibly blessed to have them in our lives. I wish they were here with us forever. They were our beautiful blessings taken from us too soon. I’m not sure what our lives hold beyond today, and it’s impossible to imagine life without them. But we wake up each day, trying to keep pushing because Kobe, and our baby girl, Gigi, are shining on us to light the way. Our love for them is endless — and that’s to say, immeasurable. I just wish I could hug them, kiss them and bless them. Have them here with us, forever. Thank you for sharing your joy, your grief and your support with us. We ask that you grant us the respect and privacy we will need to navigate this new reality. To honor our Team Mamba family, the Mamba Sports Foundation has set up the MambaOnThree Fund to help support the other families affected by this tragedy. To donate, please go to MambaOnThree.org. To further Kobe and Gianna’s legacy in youth sports, please visit MambaSportsFoundation.org. Thank you so much for lifting us up in your prayers, and for loving Kobe, Gigi, Natalia, Bianka, Capri and me. #Mamba #Mambacita #GirlsDad #DaddysGirls #Family ❤️

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P.S. Adding a special shout-out to all the single mothers out there, or resting in peace, who had to be the #GirlDads, too.

Alison makes her living loving country music. She’s based in Chicago, but she’s always leaving her heart in Nashville.

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